Posted by Patty Osborn on Friday, May 29, 2009,
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I attended my grandson's little league game this week and I was listening to the parents interact with their boys.
I believe you can cheer on your child without creating a monster. Emphasize that competition is about self-measurement and strive for excellence and not showing off. Be realistic about your child's abilities. A simple 'good job' rather than over-the-top adulation conveys that it's the effort that counts. Kids need to hear that a parent's affection doesn't hinge on their success. Continue reading ...
Posted by Patty Osborn on Friday, May 22, 2009,
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It's important to react calmly and consistently to your child's bad behavior, even if you are beyond irritated. Set rules and stand firm; otherwise, kids will continue to act up.
Our #1 family rule is RESPECT. This means no fighting, hitting, name calling, swearing or back talking allowed. Adults included! Continue reading ...
Posted by Patty Osborn on Monday, May 18, 2009,
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To alleviate your child's anxiety over sharing, have him put away his favorite toys before his friends arrive to play. This shows your children that you respect their special things, but that sharing is part of playing. I also like to let them know that their toys won't be going home with their friends. If your child and his pal start battling over a toy, calmly tell them. "We take turns in this house." Then set the kitchen timer to ensure each child gets equal playtime with the treasured toy... Continue reading ...
Posted by Patty Osborn on Thursday, May 14, 2009,
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May is when I start planning our summer vacation. I start by sending away for maps and tourist guides to places that I think we might like to go. One summer our vacation was on the history of our state. We started by checking out books at the library on our state and reading up on its history. For our vacation, we toured a lumber museum, spent a day at a Fort, visited a Bear Farm, saw a laser-light show, found the state stone on a beach, went to a maritime museum, and other state points of in... Continue reading ...
Posted by Patty Osborn on Tuesday, May 12, 2009,
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Parents disagreeing over how to discipline their kids can be one of the biggest family challanges. When talking with your spouse about discipline, show some flexibility. If one idea doesn't work, then try another one. Be open to listening and trying other options. Approach discussions with your spouse as a win-win deal. Proceed as a united front. Continue reading ...
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Patty Osborn
I dedicate this blog to the women in my life for sharing their words of wisdom and supporting me on my life's journey.
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